i listen to my friends stories, and think about things that i've been through and feel like a dumbass at times. why do we as women, let men determine how we feel about ourselves at times?
i say this because i think about how a comment from a guy has made me go into starvation mode if he says i'm getting fat, or if a man didn't call me when he said he would i have lost my mind a few times and stooped down to the lowest of levels to see where he is spending his time.
i feel like, if a man isn't doing his best to include you in his life, and isn't making an honest effort to be honest about where the two of you stand...why waste your time?
i'm only 22 but i've been through a lot. i'm tired of playing games with boys. seriously.
think about it. if a man is doing things to you that you would never do to anyone else (be honest with yourself), then you don't need to be there. if he is making you second guess him at all, you don't need to be there.
if he can't love you like you deserve to be loved, you should not be there.
be real with yourself in 2009.
2 comments:
I'm guilty to some of the things you've said you had done because of a man.
I wholeheartedly agree with you tho, leave those ones behind .
Don't you know by now to take what men say with a grain of salt? Most of us guys are idiots, probably at least 98% of us...
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